He’s not necessarily attention-grabbing or the life of the party, but he is very socially skilled. His ease puts you at ease - you feel comfortable with him, like the two of you have known each other forever.
He or she is very much at ease he may have a demeanor of being anxiety-free and without any social awkwardness. You’ll feel like the two of you are the only things in the universe, and that you’ve finally find someone who appreciates you and understands you and sees the good qualities in you that others overlook too often. This charm stems from the psychopath’s ability to be completely present as they focus on you while they figure out what makes you tick, what flattery you long to hear, and what buttons to push. This superhuman charm is often one of the first and ONLY early red flags of a psychopath, and it is exactly what makes it hard to walk away. You will find yourself wanting to be back in the focus of his potent charm again and again. It induces a trance-like sate - a pleasant, relaxed and focused state of mind that leaves you open to suggestion. 
His focus is very pleasing to the mind and senses, and it disables your personal boundaries, your gut instincts and your self-protective behavior (just when you need them most). This charm causes you - his target - to fall under his spell while he focuses intensely on you. Need someone sensitive and a bit bumbling, but with a heart of gold? He can do that, too. Need someone confident, outgoing and warm? The psychopath can do that.
He or she is incredibly charming, in exactly the way YOU find charming.
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